Winter Solstice and changes to master!
December 21 - Capricorn Season and Winter Solstice
Capricorns are great at manifesting. They are relentless and work hard to keep their dreams alive. No, isn’t in their vocab unless you step their boundaries. Then they’ll firmly, maybe, even rudely bark, “NO!” Ouch! Hint, work smart and don’t give up on your dreams.
Capricorn season feels BIG! I feel an earthquake, earth shattering, maybe it is a physical earthquake but definite changes for you. With Venus and Pluto dancing around in Capricorn until March 6/7, the changes will become apparent so prepare for the surprises and moments of epiphanies!
This Capricorn season could be a preview of what path you take for the next 4-5 years. It will also be an indication of the area(s) of life being transformed. This doesn’t mean you need to stick to the same routine for the next 4-5 years. I feel the root causes of your unhappiness that prevent you from living your desired life becomes apparent to you. Don’t ask me why! If you’ve had sessions with me, you know the accuracy of my channellings. I am but a messenger and the universe speaks through me. Stay away from people who tell you what to do and align with your supportive tribe of people. The fearful rule through lower emotional behaviours such as manipulating of basic needs like money and love (Capricorn theme and Venus).
Saturn in Capricorn
Saturn is the ruler of Capricorn. Saturn rewards hard work and teaches one to mature. It has a bad reputation for being tough. Over my years, I’ve made friends with Saturn and surrendered to being schooled. I’ve learnt Saturn’s teachings are incredibly invaluable and the rewards are magnificent. Make friends with Saturn!
Capricorn is a great energy to take charge of projects! Get organized and prioritize what is important to close out 2021, and begin 2022 with great new systems in place. The past two eclipses should’ve shed light on what needs your attention and even clues on how to create the life you want. This lack or lustful way of living has created holes and wholes in your life. Whichever way the holy, or wholly, or holey goes for you, the time for practical problem solving is now. It is time to transform those deeply embedded limiting beliefs into solutions that CAN and WILL get you the results you desire.
You can remain young at heart and take necessary steps towards maturity. Maturity isn’t about age, it is about adapting and using what you’ve learnt from previous situations. There shouldn’t be a fountain of youth on emotions and mental capacity! Golly, we’d be living in a world of chaos.
Saturn, the score keeper!
You will be learning to face your fears, make friends with your own authoritative narratives and understand who drives your unconscious behaviours. Fear can create many doubts that build up over time and leave you falling into patterns that create an unhappy life. How many people fall into things and do it out of necessity? How many people are truly living a fulfilling life?
The authoritarian in your life.
Frustration, bitterness, and depression is usually a cause of something you want to change about your life but don’t know how, yet! Tools for logical problem solving weren’t learnt in early childhood which can make logical decision-making problematic as adults.
How many times did your parents/caretakers/teachers say no to you growing up and maybe even now?
How often did you resort to not telling your elders about your life to avoid their disapproval?
When was the first time you fabricated something to get what you wanted?
Are your elders trying to protect you from the big bad world? Or are they projecting their fears? How often were they making things about them? Parenting is a tricky balance between logic and awareness. We are a long way from healthy parenting because there are too many discontent adults raising children from their own wounded egos.
At birth you are a blank slate full of love and you give your love freely. If you receive anything less than love back in your childhood, it begins to fracture your mind and spirit. Abused children develop many splits to cope with the cruelties leashed upon them. Negativity isn’t something we voluntarily process.
Who prefers to be let down gently?
Who prefers directness even if it hurts?
You deal with the negativity through the 7 grieving steps.
Denial
Blame
Bargaining (builds guilt from feeling conflicted about the situation)
Sadness/Feeling Lost (state of being depressed because you can’t change the situation)
Acceptance
Children view the world as limitless and want to explore eagerly and daringly through their vivid imaginations. Courage is abundant in a child’s play. I was fearless when I was younger. Through conversations with my imaginary friend, I jumped out of my bedroom window and off buildings and got up to mischief. No meant yes, even back then my intuition was right on. I wish I listened to her rather than my parents. I had few filters and freely spoke my mind. I’ve been trying to find her again for decades! What were you like as a child?
Once shut down, fear begins to set in, you build a wall of shame and guilt for trying to be authentic. To resist any kind of rejection from others you start to adapt to your surroundings for love and acceptance. Your earlier years are formidable you might mimic your parents. You follow the popular trends. It is the trend setters who are the courageous ones.
For years, I rejected my Indian side and my psychic gifts just so I would fit in with my British surroundings. The western life supported many more opportunities for freedom. The strict Indian culture to obey thy parents and abuse restricted my spirit from soaring and I slowly shut down. It was through suffering in silence, an extreme form of denial that woke me up. Recently through the use of NLP, I integrated the conflict between being loyal to myself and my ancestors. The integration work was so powerful, I noticed the changes within days of the integration work. I began listening to old Hindi songs I enjoyed as a child. Neither do I feel discontent nor fractured about where my loyalties lie. What are you carrying that you want to shed?
Shame is the destroyer of rational thinking. Constant negativity suffocates development. You often adopt pretending, lock things up in boxes and label your experiences. If you never reopen the boxes to sort through the pictures you’ve made up about past events, you leave these unconscious patterns running in the background. This way of living isn’t your friend anymore. Be vulnerable with yourself and shed the shame. Now, it is safe for you to release the past. Survival isn’t healthy, living authentically is the goal. I will be rolling out very effective breakthrough tools in the new year for you. They will help you take control of your mind and lead your life with your heart. Wouldn’t you like that?
This is what we are going to be working on healing over the next couple of years. The authoritarian in your life. Who has power over your mind? The next years humanity needs to heal the restriction preventing them from living authentically. But will tyranny win the day?
Remember, Venus in Capricorn helps you review, refine, and redefine your emotions. There are some major aspects happening before the year ends making the holidays interesting times for reflection and observation. Pick your battles well if you are spending time with family and friends. Concern yourself with only want you need to heal. Avoid confusion by communicating with honesty and love. By the time Venus enters Aquarius and Aquarius season arrives, you should’ve learnt a great deal about your truly satisfies in your life and what drains your energy. It is time to clear out the junk. Spatial, emotional, and mental clearing is necessary for growth and upgrading your mind to new possibilities.
Happy Holidays.
Sending Love.
